Letters of Recommendation

Colleges request letters of recommendation as part of the application package to understand what contributions a student may bring and to gain another perspective on the applicant. Below are essential tips for ensuring students secure strong letters of recommendation.

How to Choose a Recommender: For students in public, charter, or private schools, the ideal recommenders are those who know them well and can provide specific examples of their character and achievements. Due to high turnover in some schools, students may have limited relationships with teachers, especially in public and charter schools. In these cases, consider mentors outside the classroom, such as counselors, club advisors, or volunteer coordinators. Letters on letterhead that identify the recommender’s affiliation add credibility to the letter.

Homeschool students, too, can find excellent recommenders in homeschool co-ops, community organizations, church groups, online classes, or extracurricular instructors like those for AP, CLEP, or dual-enrollment courses. For homeschoolers, a varied recommendation set demonstrates their commitment and adaptability across different environments.

When to Ask for Your LetterIn busy public and charter school settings, teachers and staff are often stretched thin. Students should ask for their letter at least three weeks before the college deadline to give recommenders adequate time. For schools with high turnover, starting early can be particularly beneficial, as students may need to reach out to mentors or past teachers.

Following up with a thank-you note shows gratitude and reinforces the student's professionalism, a quality colleges value.

What to Give Your Recommender: A “student brag sheet” or resume helps recommenders focus on the highlights of a student’s journey, particularly if the recommender is a teacher in a high-turnover school who may not know the student well. Including specific achievements, strengths, and skills allows the recommender to paint a fuller picture without the need for extensive familiarity. Avoid writing the recommendation for them; instead, provide enough information to make it easy for them to compose a meaningful, supportive letter.

Cheryl Carter has guided numerous students through successful college applications, offering strategic, practical advice to give parents "the homeschool advantage" in college admissions.